As the nights grow chilly, we’re cozying up with five books to help us discover, calm, expand, and reach our centennial birthdays. This quintet of titles by workshop leaders, wellness giants, cutting-edge philosophers, and intrepid explorers will inspire you to transform inside and out through some life-sustaining practices and recipes.
by Danny Angelo Fluker, Jr.
The founder of Black Boys OM and workshop leader of the upcoming Healing, Rest, and Embodied Liberation for Men of Color has written a thoughtfully curated and structured journal for self-reflection guided by wisdom from African, Yogic, Buddhist, and Indigenous traditions. Flucker, a meditation and yoga instructor, adds special attention to meditation, breathwork, and nervous system regulation techniques and includes a “Mind Mapping” section for readers to bring their needs, intentions, and life plans into crystal clear focus. When recently asked about his favorite aspects of work, he replied, “The ability to make something out of nothing and to help people re-center and remember their own divinity.” With this guide, Fluker is reaching out directly to you.
by Jon Kabat‑Zinn and Thich Nhat Hanh
This “great classic” of mind/body medicine and mindfulness takes its title from the film Zorba the Greek, in which the protagonist is asked if he has ever married. “Am I not a man? Of course I've been married! Wife, house, kids — the full catastrophe!” Zinn asks us to “dance in the gale” of the full catastrophe of life, all of existence’s joys and sorrows, while teaching proven mind-body approaches from meditation and yoga that foster well-being. It has been almost 35 years since this global bestseller, based on Kabat-Zinn’s ten years of experience at a stress reduction clinic at the University of Massachusetts Medical Center, was first published. Since then, it has been the inspiration behind countless mindfulness and stress reduction programs and has changed how the world understands the mind-body connection. In an introduction for the 2005 edition, the author wrote that mindfulness is “now more relevant than ever … to insure and strengthen our health and well-being, and perhaps our very sanity.” Much like this foundational text, those words remain painfully true, so let’s dance!
by Jeffrey J. Kripal
Kripal, who penned the definitive history of the Institute and its founding, Esalen: America and the Religion of No Religion, draws on, well, just about everything as he argues for a new model of the imagination — one that can fit all the phenomenon dismissed by experts and cynics: UFO encounters, precognitive dreams, telepathic visions, near-death experiences, and more. All that stuff that isn’t supposed to happen but does all the time. With this book, Kripal is developing a theory of mind that can provide greater insight into the too-often-dismissed mysteries. “I’m pushing back against this idea that the imagination is just about imaginary mental states,” says the author. In the words of a very respectable publishing trade magazine’s review: “Kripal bravely dives into fundamental questions, and he offers mind-stretching possibilities as a result.” However, we prefer this post by one of Kripal’s readers: “An electric cornucopia of high powered supercharged Neoplatonic magical-mysticism of such massive voltage & abundance that I reel from it almost every day!”
by Mark Coleman
The answer for anyone looking to finally shut up that belittling eternal whisper: “You’re not good/smart/thin/cool enough!” This volume by Buddhist meditation teacher, founder of the Mindfulness Institute, Esalen workshop leader, and author Coleman (Awake in the Wild, From Suffering to Peace) is filled with compassion to counteract all that negatively-toned self-talk. Make Peace with Your Mind teaches the difference between intrusive judgment and wise discernment and the power of humor and forgiveness, which can benefit everyone — even if they don’t quite know it. “I think people don’t realize they have a critic … don’t even have a word for it,” Coleman explains, “but when I say, ‘Hey, does anyone give themselves a hard time?’ Or when I say, ‘Does anybody have that kind of controlling, demanding, driving voice?” they’ll say, ‘Oh, yeah, I’ve got one of those.’” The simple and effective practices and inspiring stories will help you silence the one you carry inside you for a happier and flourishing life.
by Dan Buettner
Yes, this cookbook has mouthwatering recipes, but it is also a travelog of beautiful places and a wellness guide designed to transform you from the inside out. Twenty years ago, Buettner identified the regions where people live longer, healthier lives. “These longevity hotspots are known as ‘blue zones,’ and I’ve made it my mission to teach people how to embrace the blue zones’ way of life and live to a healthy 100,” writes the explorer, National Geographic Fellow, award-winning journalist, and three-time Guinness World record distance cycling holder. Out of all the books in Buettner’s Blue Zone series (including The Blue Zones, Thrive, and The Blue Zones of Happiness), this one is officially our favorite for merging “scientific reporting, National Geographic photography, and 100 recipes that may help you live to 100.” Also, the life-sustaining food is surprisingly delicious! The Okinawan sweet bread (p.129 in my copy) will leave you deeply satiated at any age.
“Remembering to be as self compassionate as I can and praying to the divine that we're all a part of.”
–Aaron
“Prayer, reading, meditation, walking.”
–Karen
“Erratically — which is an ongoing stream of practice to find peace.”
–Charles
“Try on a daily basis to be kind to myself and to realize that making mistakes is a part of the human condition. Learning from our mistakes is a journey. But it starts with compassion and caring. First for oneself.”
–Steve
“Physically: aerobic exercise, volleyball, ice hockey, cycling, sailing. Emotionally: unfortunately I have to work to ‘not care’ about people or situations which may end painfully. Along the lines of ‘attachment is the source of suffering’, so best to avoid it or limit its scope. Sad though because it could also be the source of great joy. Is it worth the risk?“
–Rainer
“It's time for my heart to be nurtured on one level yet contained on another. To go easy on me and to allow my feelings to be validated, not judged harshly. On the other hand, to let the heart rule with equanimity and not lead the mind and body around like a master.”
–Suzanne
“I spend time thinking of everything I am grateful for, and I try to develop my ability to express compassion for myself and others without reservation. I take time to do the things I need to do to keep myself healthy and happy. This includes taking experiential workshops, fostering relationships, and participating within groups which have a similar interest to become a more compassionate and fulfilled being.“
–Peter
“Self-forgiveness for my own judgments. And oh yeah, coming to Esalen.”
–David B.
“Hmm, this is a tough one! I guess I take care of my heart through fostering relationships with people I feel connected to. Spending quality time with them (whether we're on the phone, through messages/letters, on Zoom, or in-person). Being there for them, listening to them, sharing what's going on with me, my struggles and my successes... like we do in the Esalen weekly Friends of Esalen Zoom sessions!”
–Lori
“I remind myself in many ways of the fact that " Love is all there is!" LOVE is the prize and this one precious life is the stage we get to learn our lessons. I get out into nature, hike, camp, river kayak, fly fish, garden, I create, I dance (not enough!), and I remain grateful for each day, each breath, each moment. Being in the moment, awake, and remembering the gift of life and my feeling of gratitude for all of creation.”
–Steven
“My physical heart by limiting stress and eating a heart-healthy diet. My emotional heart by staying in love with the world and by knowing that all disappointment and loss will pass.“
–David Z.
Today, September 29, is World Heart Day. Strike up a conversation with your own heart and as you feel comfortable, encourage others to do the same. As part of our own transformations and self-care, we sometimes ask for others to illuminate and enliven our hearts or speak our love language.
What if we could do this for ourselves too, even if just for today… or to start a heart practice, forever?
As the nights grow chilly, we’re cozying up with five books to help us discover, calm, expand, and reach our centennial birthdays. This quintet of titles by workshop leaders, wellness giants, cutting-edge philosophers, and intrepid explorers will inspire you to transform inside and out through some life-sustaining practices and recipes.
The founder of Black Boys OM and workshop leader of the upcoming Healing, Rest, and Embodied Liberation for Men of Color has written a thoughtfully curated and structured journal for self-reflection guided by wisdom from African, Yogic, Buddhist, and Indigenous traditions. Flucker, a meditation and yoga instructor, adds special attention to meditation, breathwork, and nervous system regulation techniques and includes a “Mind Mapping” section for readers to bring their needs, intentions, and life plans into crystal clear focus. When recently asked about his favorite aspects of work, he replied, “The ability to make something out of nothing and to help people re-center and remember their own divinity.” With this guide, Fluker is reaching out directly to you.
This “great classic” of mind/body medicine and mindfulness takes its title from the film Zorba the Greek, in which the protagonist is asked if he has ever married. “Am I not a man? Of course I've been married! Wife, house, kids — the full catastrophe!” Zinn asks us to “dance in the gale” of the full catastrophe of life, all of existence’s joys and sorrows, while teaching proven mind-body approaches from meditation and yoga that foster well-being. It has been almost 35 years since this global bestseller, based on Kabat-Zinn’s ten years of experience at a stress reduction clinic at the University of Massachusetts Medical Center, was first published. Since then, it has been the inspiration behind countless mindfulness and stress reduction programs and has changed how the world understands the mind-body connection. In an introduction for the 2005 edition, the author wrote that mindfulness is “now more relevant than ever … to insure and strengthen our health and well-being, and perhaps our very sanity.” Much like this foundational text, those words remain painfully true, so let’s dance!
Kripal, who penned the definitive history of the Institute and its founding, Esalen: America and the Religion of No Religion, draws on, well, just about everything as he argues for a new model of the imagination — one that can fit all the phenomenon dismissed by experts and cynics: UFO encounters, precognitive dreams, telepathic visions, near-death experiences, and more. All that stuff that isn’t supposed to happen but does all the time. With this book, Kripal is developing a theory of mind that can provide greater insight into the too-often-dismissed mysteries. “I’m pushing back against this idea that the imagination is just about imaginary mental states,” says the author. In the words of a very respectable publishing trade magazine’s review: “Kripal bravely dives into fundamental questions, and he offers mind-stretching possibilities as a result.” However, we prefer this post by one of Kripal’s readers: “An electric cornucopia of high powered supercharged Neoplatonic magical-mysticism of such massive voltage & abundance that I reel from it almost every day!”
The answer for anyone looking to finally shut up that belittling eternal whisper: “You’re not good/smart/thin/cool enough!” This volume by Buddhist meditation teacher, founder of the Mindfulness Institute, Esalen workshop leader, and author Coleman (Awake in the Wild, From Suffering to Peace) is filled with compassion to counteract all that negatively-toned self-talk. Make Peace with Your Mind teaches the difference between intrusive judgment and wise discernment and the power of humor and forgiveness, which can benefit everyone — even if they don’t quite know it. “I think people don’t realize they have a critic … don’t even have a word for it,” Coleman explains, “but when I say, ‘Hey, does anyone give themselves a hard time?’ Or when I say, ‘Does anybody have that kind of controlling, demanding, driving voice?” they’ll say, ‘Oh, yeah, I’ve got one of those.’” The simple and effective practices and inspiring stories will help you silence the one you carry inside you for a happier and flourishing life.
Yes, this cookbook has mouthwatering recipes, but it is also a travelog of beautiful places and a wellness guide designed to transform you from the inside out. Twenty years ago, Buettner identified the regions where people live longer, healthier lives. “These longevity hotspots are known as ‘blue zones,’ and I’ve made it my mission to teach people how to embrace the blue zones’ way of life and live to a healthy 100,” writes the explorer, National Geographic Fellow, award-winning journalist, and three-time Guinness World record distance cycling holder. Out of all the books in Buettner’s Blue Zone series (including The Blue Zones, Thrive, and The Blue Zones of Happiness), this one is officially our favorite for merging “scientific reporting, National Geographic photography, and 100 recipes that may help you live to 100.” Also, the life-sustaining food is surprisingly delicious! The Okinawan sweet bread (p.129 in my copy) will leave you deeply satiated at any age.
“Remembering to be as self compassionate as I can and praying to the divine that we're all a part of.”
–Aaron
“Prayer, reading, meditation, walking.”
–Karen
“Erratically — which is an ongoing stream of practice to find peace.”
–Charles
“Try on a daily basis to be kind to myself and to realize that making mistakes is a part of the human condition. Learning from our mistakes is a journey. But it starts with compassion and caring. First for oneself.”
–Steve
“Physically: aerobic exercise, volleyball, ice hockey, cycling, sailing. Emotionally: unfortunately I have to work to ‘not care’ about people or situations which may end painfully. Along the lines of ‘attachment is the source of suffering’, so best to avoid it or limit its scope. Sad though because it could also be the source of great joy. Is it worth the risk?“
–Rainer
“It's time for my heart to be nurtured on one level yet contained on another. To go easy on me and to allow my feelings to be validated, not judged harshly. On the other hand, to let the heart rule with equanimity and not lead the mind and body around like a master.”
–Suzanne
“I spend time thinking of everything I am grateful for, and I try to develop my ability to express compassion for myself and others without reservation. I take time to do the things I need to do to keep myself healthy and happy. This includes taking experiential workshops, fostering relationships, and participating within groups which have a similar interest to become a more compassionate and fulfilled being.“
–Peter
“Self-forgiveness for my own judgments. And oh yeah, coming to Esalen.”
–David B.
“Hmm, this is a tough one! I guess I take care of my heart through fostering relationships with people I feel connected to. Spending quality time with them (whether we're on the phone, through messages/letters, on Zoom, or in-person). Being there for them, listening to them, sharing what's going on with me, my struggles and my successes... like we do in the Esalen weekly Friends of Esalen Zoom sessions!”
–Lori
“I remind myself in many ways of the fact that " Love is all there is!" LOVE is the prize and this one precious life is the stage we get to learn our lessons. I get out into nature, hike, camp, river kayak, fly fish, garden, I create, I dance (not enough!), and I remain grateful for each day, each breath, each moment. Being in the moment, awake, and remembering the gift of life and my feeling of gratitude for all of creation.”
–Steven
“My physical heart by limiting stress and eating a heart-healthy diet. My emotional heart by staying in love with the world and by knowing that all disappointment and loss will pass.“
–David Z.
Today, September 29, is World Heart Day. Strike up a conversation with your own heart and as you feel comfortable, encourage others to do the same. As part of our own transformations and self-care, we sometimes ask for others to illuminate and enliven our hearts or speak our love language.
What if we could do this for ourselves too, even if just for today… or to start a heart practice, forever?
As the nights grow chilly, we’re cozying up with five books to help us discover, calm, expand, and reach our centennial birthdays. This quintet of titles by workshop leaders, wellness giants, cutting-edge philosophers, and intrepid explorers will inspire you to transform inside and out through some life-sustaining practices and recipes.
“Remembering to be as self compassionate as I can and praying to the divine that we're all a part of.”
–Aaron
“Prayer, reading, meditation, walking.”
–Karen
“Erratically — which is an ongoing stream of practice to find peace.”
–Charles
“Try on a daily basis to be kind to myself and to realize that making mistakes is a part of the human condition. Learning from our mistakes is a journey. But it starts with compassion and caring. First for oneself.”
–Steve
“Physically: aerobic exercise, volleyball, ice hockey, cycling, sailing. Emotionally: unfortunately I have to work to ‘not care’ about people or situations which may end painfully. Along the lines of ‘attachment is the source of suffering’, so best to avoid it or limit its scope. Sad though because it could also be the source of great joy. Is it worth the risk?“
–Rainer
“It's time for my heart to be nurtured on one level yet contained on another. To go easy on me and to allow my feelings to be validated, not judged harshly. On the other hand, to let the heart rule with equanimity and not lead the mind and body around like a master.”
–Suzanne
“I spend time thinking of everything I am grateful for, and I try to develop my ability to express compassion for myself and others without reservation. I take time to do the things I need to do to keep myself healthy and happy. This includes taking experiential workshops, fostering relationships, and participating within groups which have a similar interest to become a more compassionate and fulfilled being.“
–Peter
“Self-forgiveness for my own judgments. And oh yeah, coming to Esalen.”
–David B.
“Hmm, this is a tough one! I guess I take care of my heart through fostering relationships with people I feel connected to. Spending quality time with them (whether we're on the phone, through messages/letters, on Zoom, or in-person). Being there for them, listening to them, sharing what's going on with me, my struggles and my successes... like we do in the Esalen weekly Friends of Esalen Zoom sessions!”
–Lori
“I remind myself in many ways of the fact that " Love is all there is!" LOVE is the prize and this one precious life is the stage we get to learn our lessons. I get out into nature, hike, camp, river kayak, fly fish, garden, I create, I dance (not enough!), and I remain grateful for each day, each breath, each moment. Being in the moment, awake, and remembering the gift of life and my feeling of gratitude for all of creation.”
–Steven
“My physical heart by limiting stress and eating a heart-healthy diet. My emotional heart by staying in love with the world and by knowing that all disappointment and loss will pass.“
–David Z.
Today, September 29, is World Heart Day. Strike up a conversation with your own heart and as you feel comfortable, encourage others to do the same. As part of our own transformations and self-care, we sometimes ask for others to illuminate and enliven our hearts or speak our love language.
What if we could do this for ourselves too, even if just for today… or to start a heart practice, forever?